The change is in you.

I don't blame anyone that has bad habits or weird emotion etc. I think human behaviour and how they behave is actually being affected by the environment that they are brought up with. For example: There is this girl that I know do not go round the bush and always go straight to the point regardless of how the other party feels. Later on, I realise that the whole family is actually like that. So I don't blame her for being like that. Being brought up this way, and thinking that this is the only option to live is to be straight forward regarding herself and care about the feelings of others. But however it is the responsibility of others to tell them in a nice way, and it is thier own personal responsibility to change, because they know that there is an option to change. The change is in you.