Don't just sympathise.

The recent natural disaster makes me think. The media has been trying to make everyone sympathise on the victims. Many of them make the victims look like their lives are ruin and they are alone in this world. Do not just sympathise. What they really need is not sympathy. What they need is help, and warmth. Please provide help in anyway that you can.

Respect or Sympathy?

The line between respect and sympathy is a very fine line. Both also bring food to the table by using other people. When people respect you, they will listen to you. when people sympathise with you, they also will listen to you. So which route are you on? which side are you on? Do the one that work best for you. Cheers.

Have a mind of a child. It will do you more good.

Change your perspective my friends. It will change your life.

The older we grow. The harder reality strikes. And most of the time, only negative stuffs will be amplified and take notice. This makes an average person be negative most of the time. If you have not realised, positive people tend to be more efficient. Less sulking around makes them more fun and more successful.

Why can't people just be like a child. Do everything one step at a time. Not thinking too much about what is really happening, just do whatever is needed to do. This will actually make things easier and enjoy life the way it is.

Success of the ERP system.

ERP system is of a success to a certain extend. Either you are sick of paying or you are sick of the jams on the alternate routes. Hopefully they do not ruin the plan by putting gantries on alternative routes too. As I felt some road should be sacrificial. And it is already great so far.

What? Change girlfriend again?

Stop lookiong for the right person. Be the right person.

Quote: I am marrying the girl and not her family.

Have you said those words before or you heard your friends or the tv saying it.

It is totally not true.

First, The Family lives longer together with the person longer than you know the person. So the words that they say speaks louder than what you can say.

Secondly, the person often inherits the trades and behaviours of the family the person is in. As he/she is brought up this way and therefore sure has some qualities that are similar.

So marrying someone is often marrying the family. ;) Cheers.